The Magic Power of Writing Down Your Dreams

Hello there! I am Manabi Kuma, and I am so happy to help you learn today. Imagine you are going on a big treasure hunt. If you don't have a map, you might get lost in the woods, right? Writing down your goals is exactly like drawing that map. It tells your brain exactly where you want to go. Ali Abdaal shares a story about a man named Jim Rohn who was mentored by a successful businessman named Mr. Shoaff. Mr. Shoaff told him that if he didn't have a list of goals, his bank account would stay empty. This is because having a list makes your dreams feel real instead of just being fluffy clouds in your head.
It is not just a story, though! Science from Dominican University shows that people who write things down are much more likely to win. When you write, your brain remembers the goal better. It's like giving your mind a special mission. You don't need a fancy notebook; even a simple Google Doc will do. Ali Abdaal calls his document the 'Goalkeeper.' He likes to set goals for every three months, which he calls 'Quarterly Quests.' This makes the big year feel less scary, Kuma!
Writing goals is the first step to making them come true. If you don't write them, you might forget them when you get busy with school or play. Just like how we keep a list for the grocery store so we don't forget the milk, we need a list for our lives. This list acts as a steady anchor. When life gets wavy and stormy, your written goals keep your boat from drifting away into the deep ocean. It is a very simple thing to do, but it has a huge impact on your future.
Key insight: Writing your goals makes them 42% more likely to happen because it creates a physical record for your brain to focus on.
| Action | Benefit |
|---|---|
| Writing it down | Increases success by 42% |
| Keeping it in your head | Easy to forget and lose focus |
| Setting Quarterly Quests | Makes big goals feel manageable |
Let's try to write just three things you want to do this month. Maybe you want to read a new book or learn to ride a bike. Whatever it is, write it down! It only takes a few minutes, but it is like planting a seed that will grow into a big, strong tree. You can do it, Kuma!
Training Your Brain with the Reticular Activating System

Did you know your brain has a secret filter? It is called the Reticular Activating System, or RAS for short. Think of it like a little guard at the door of your mind. There are millions of things happening around you all the time—birds singing, cars driving, the smell of cookies. Your brain can't notice everything, so the RAS decides what is important. If you tell your RAS that a certain goal is important, it will start looking for things to help you reach it. It's like when you decide you want a blue toy car, and suddenly you see blue toy cars everywhere, Kuma!
Strategy number two is to look at your goals every single day or at least every week. If you write them down and then hide the paper in a drawer, your RAS will forget about them. Ali Abdaal suggests doing a 'Weekly Reset.' This is a time when you sit down and ask yourself, 'How am I doing with my quests?' By looking at your list, you are reminding the little guard at the door to keep searching for clues. It's like giving your brain a pair of magic glasses that find opportunities you didn't see before.
Looking at your goals daily is like refreshing a webpage to see the latest updates on your progress.
- Put your list on your desk.
- Set a reminder on your phone.
- Write it on your bathroom mirror.
- Talk about it with a friend.
Memo: The RAS works in the background of your mind even when you are sleeping or playing, as long as you keep the goal fresh in your thoughts.
Many people make the mistake of setting a goal on New Year's Day and never looking at it again. That is like starting a race and then sitting down to have a nap after ten steps! We want to keep running, even if it is just a slow jog. Spending just ten seconds a day looking at your list is enough to keep your brain's engine running. It's a tiny habit that moves the needle a lot. Consistency is your best friend on this journey, Kuma!
Tracking Your Progress Like a Hero in a Video Game
Have you ever played a video game where you can see your 'experience bar' filling up? It feels so good to see that bar go from zero to one hundred, right? Achieving goals should feel the same way! Strategy number three is to monitor your progress regularly. A big study of over 20,000 people found that checking in on your progress makes you much more likely to finish what you started. When you see that you are moving forward, it makes you want to keep going. It is like climbing a mountain and looking back to see how far you have come.

